Saturday, August 29, 2015

Jet Lag Buffet

In case you are interested the jet lag is in full affect, as expected. A little different hours than coming to the States but the same in that people are awake when we don't want them to be.

The Jet Lag Buffet is open as some people here have fallen asleep from 4:30pm-12am, not having eaten dinner. On our menu this evening was a request for peanuts, in a bowl not the bag, a banana, water and an Ego pancake. For my buffet it was Dunkin Hines brownies (with chocolate chips) and coffee.

This child spent a good part of the morning trying on all of her new shoes.




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Thursday, August 27, 2015

And We're Back

These two pictures pretty much sum up out return. Jet-lagged and up early admiring the technology of street sweeping here in Shanghai.






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Whack-a-Mole

I remember fondly spending time as a child at Long Beach Island and going to Fantasy Island for rides and arcade games.  One of the games we played, aside from skee-ball, was *whack-a-mole.  It was a test of my agility and coordination.

Fast forward 20+ years, when I was pregnant with our second child a friend shared with me this advice: If both kids are crying at the same time, pay attention the child who has the more pressing/urgent issue.  Obviously the most pressing or urgent issue is debatable.  Taking that advice, I felt I would address the child who's crying I could curtail faster.

In the past 16 months I noticed early on that, thankful, I did not have to practice this advice so frequently which has led me to the development of my "One Child Crying at a Time Policy" (OCCTP).  This policy has taken a life on of it's own in our home.  Our daughter was colic for the first 16 weeks of her life.  Thankfully our son thought it was cute and did not cry much when she was crying (shocking behavior for a 3 year old, I know).  When things leveled out with the colic I noticed that one kid would cry, we'd calm down and the other would start they would not often be crying at the same time.  At first I felt like I was playing whack-a-mole, get one kid down before the other one pops up.  For some reason continuous crying didn't seem has hard than both kids crying at the same time.

OCCTP has been self imposed on my kids, for the most part.  The other day both kids were standing at the screen door, crying together with their hands against the screen calling my name as I was taking the garbage to the curb.  In my head I was thinking keep walking but in my heart I knew I could calm them down, eventually, and thank god they don't cry at the same time often.  



*In case you are unfamiliar with the game: an arcade game in which players use a mallet to hit toy moles, which appear at random, back into their holes.

Friday, August 21, 2015

Going Back to the Future

We are winding down our 58 day trip to the States. We will have flown 18,000 miles (round trip), driven nearly 4,000 miles by car and traveled between New York, New Jersey and Connecticut enough to keep EZ Pass in business for a while.

Things we've learned:
-My kids have adapted to waking up and not knowing where they are and not freaking out, as much; my son just asks every day "is it morning time yet?"
-My 16 month old learned where her nose, ears and mouth are in English (she knew in Chinese already)
-My 4 year old hates the sand but loves the beach
-My parents would have been married 50 years next week
-My brothers still know how to push my buttons and I love them for that
-I have awesome sister-in-laws who have made being here less hard and being away less hard
-I was told by my mother (of all people) that calling my Husband my Beloved in my previous post was "corny"
-Avoid dairy products before long car rides (more than 30 minutes)
-My family and friends have been so sensitive with our travel schedule and adaptability with shelping around everywhere and understanding it is not easy and in fact this is not relaxing nor a vacation for me
-I have some angst about going back to China for the "long haul" (til next summer as we don't have plans to travel back to the States this year) but I am starting to look forward to going back getting into our China groove sharing our adventures with you.


I will bid farewell as we head back into the Flux Capacitor.


Thursday, August 20, 2015

Is it 7/11 or 11/7

When we are in China it gets quiet on FaceTime and Whatsapp (our most popular modes of communication with the States) around 11am until about 7pm. I always have to remind myself we are a day a head. It's confusing a lot of the time to think we are starting our day and my family and friends are wrapping up a day and when we are wrapping up a day they are just starting.

Now being on the other side of the time difference trying connect with my Beloved has been a bit of a challenge. Things get quiet here from 11am-7pm as he is winding down but the windows to talk are hectic as the kids are waking up/eating or driving me loco-I-mean having so much fun so it's not the most ideal time to catch up with each other.

For example, right now we are up (it's 7am) and Beloved is on a delayed airplane traveling back to Shanghai from a business trip and it's Thursday night already. It blows my mind, still.

To look on the positive side we have been able to catch up frequently this week from 2am-5am as one child or the other has been waking up for one thing or another. The kids did not get the memo: The sound of the ocean is supposed to help you sleep better #roadtrip #travelingwoes #lifewithkids #itiswhatitis


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Thursday, August 6, 2015

Ruminations From the Turnpike

Two thirds of our trip in the States and over 2,500 miles driven on our rental car #Enterprise we've had a lot of time to think and talk about some random things in the car. Below are some thoughts.

-Drive thru #dunkindonuts is clutch when in a car with kids
-My 16 month can crush stairs, going up and down
-If my 4.5 year had to physically roll the window up and down every time the novelty would have worn off weeks ago
-Having a cold in the summer stinks
-The expanded #NJTurnpike is awesome
-Thank whoever created #ezpass
-How can people NOT have #ezpass, it's 2015 people
-Gas is really cheap in NJ ($2.23)
-Stores are anti-mothers: they don't open until 10am and they close at 8pm
-Good thing #wholefoods opens at 8am #earlyrisers
-My kids must wonder each night where they are sleeping the next night and how much time are we spending in the car
-Counting Light Sabors and Ewoks thanks to Stars Wars learning workbooks #costco
-My 4.5 year old asked me if there is TV in the sky, he's concerned what my father does all day. And he's hoping it is not making thunder


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Thursday, July 23, 2015

Clowns, Clowns Everywhere

Be careful if you get pulled over by these clowns!





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Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Single Parenting/Parenting Single

It's been fantastic being able to finally take things a little easier (because parenting is anything but easy) getting over the jet-lag (midnight wake-ups, midnight snacks and midnight visitors) and spending time with my family. They have certainly made the transition home easier by welcoming us with open arms, upside down kids and all.

Lots of NJ turnpike, car sick kids (nothing like throw up at exit 14 and the nearest rest stop near exit 10), swimming, shopping and family and we are 1/4 of the way through our visit. Hard to believe but time is flying by.

I'm still enamored by the amount of available kosher products in the stores. I'd have to say when people ask me what am I most excited about being back, I'd have to say the selection at the store.

We've been in the US just over 2 weeks and about to reunited as a family tomorrow afternoon. We could not be more excited. I'd say I'm capable at parenting my kids solo but I certainly say I miss my co-pilot. Thankfully we've been able to find some sort of crazy balance and support each other being so far apart.

Friday, July 17, 2015

Fortune Cookie Friday

You will be hungry again in one hour.

Apparently there are many theories why one is hungry so soon after eating Chinese food over other ethnic foods.  I came across this blog create by "Five Hungry Jewish Guys on a Quest to find the Best Chinese Reasturant on Long Island and NYC".  This blog has done agreat job of collecting the top 10 reason why you feel hungry an hour after eating Chinese Food.

1. A Chinese gentleman I work with told me that this is due to the effects of mono-sodium glutamate (MSG), which, in addition to enhancing the flavor of food, acts as an appetite stimulant, leaving the consumer with a sensation of hunger, despite having eaten. In some people, MSG produces even less desirable effects, such as headaches and nausea.

2. It could be the high glycemic load– there’s white rice, there’s white noodles, there’s sugar and white flour somewhere in the main dish, there’s more white rice, and then there’s a fortune cookie made of sugar and white flour. It spikes your insulin, you get full fast, and then you crash and need more food. An interesting experiment would be to make a typical American Chinese restaurant type meal using wheat flour, brown rice, and an unprocessed sweetener such as rapadura or agave nectar, and to give it to people who didn’t know what the experiment was about and seeing if they got hungry again soon after eating it.

3. Chinese food is traditionally very low in fat, and it’s the fat in food that keeps you feeling full longer. The Chinese themselves tend to fill up on carbs (rice, noodles) and mostly vegetables at their meals (they eat MUCH less meat than we do in the West), so it may be that you’re actually not eating enough (you say you don’t eat too much)! I don’t think it’s MSG, as that’s simply a flavor enhancer derived naturally (from beetroot), most Chinese restaurants don’t even use it any more (and haven’t for years), and those that do would only use a tiny, tiny amount.

4. While there is some protein in any of the meat options you have, the rest are full of carbs and sugars. This will make you feel extremely full right after eating, but usually once your body has processed the carbs and broken them down to just sugar, your body is hungry again.

5. Researchers now believe the culprit may be carbohydrates. More specifically, certain types of carbohydrates, including rice and pasta. These carbohydrates have a high glycemic index (GI), which means the body needs to produce extra insulin to digest them. Certain diet doctors believe consuming these carbohydrates can cause overeating, since excess insulin causes the blood sugar to plummet, creating a hungry feeling.

6. Noodles and rice are the staple of most Chinese dishes. Both are very easy to digest and turn to sugar which your body uses very quickly. So if you eat a dish high in simple carbohydrates likes noodles, rice, or potato, you may get a sugar spike and a burst of energy followed by tiredness and hunger.

7. Because real Chinese food is very low in essential fats and essential amino acids. They also tend to be high in empty calories (white rice, refined flour, refined sugar) which has lots of calories but no nutrients. When you don’t give your body essential nutrients, it will make you hungry until you have consume enough of them.

8. Typically Chinese buffets tend to load the food up with MSG so you feel fuller after eating less. Thus they save money because you’re not eating as much as you normally would.

9. The preservatives are most likely making you dehydrated. Dehydration often gives you the false sense that you are “hungry”.

10. Chinese food is full of sodium. Sodium is salt, if you didn’t know that. Salt makes you thirsty, that’s why at the bar they serve peanuts for free or pretzels so that you will order more to drink. So really you are thirsty not hungry.

Thursday, July 16, 2015

Missing Most from Shanghai

What am I missing most while I am in the United States from China?



I'd have to say Liz my pilates instructor. I was quiet surprised with myself that I actually like pilates. Thinking it was totally going to be laying on the the mat breathing and finding my qi or chai, it was actually quiet the opposite experience. It's active, it's strength training, it's made my back feel so much better (working that "core") and I think the breathing helped me too. Liz is calm and understated in her experience and ability which makes me feel so comfortable doing it.



Right now, aside from my Beloved (which I think is pretty obvious) that is about all I am missing from Shanghai right now.





Disney Shanghai 2016

Apparently 12,000 Chinese workers are quickly building Disney Shanghai. As if us living there isn't enough to visit, see you in 2016!!


Disney Shanghai: Go Inside $5.5 Billion Theme Park in China
https://goo.gl/ezQhnp



The Whirlwind in Full Affect


Over the jet-lag and through the turnpike with friends near and far to see! The fun has begun!































Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Your Questions Answered...

Below are a list of questions most asked when people have seen me for the first time or hear we are visiting from China.

1) How is it to be home?
GREAT

2) How is life in China?
It's very different.

3) Do you like living there?
Like living anywhere, it has is pros and cons but we are enjoying the adventure and making the most of it.

4) Do the kids speak Chinese?
The are learning. My son understands a lot, can count, sing songs (but please don't ask him to perform, he will not). He learns Chinese in school and has an amazing tutor. My daughter also understands Chinese and is learning to speak in Chinese. Our Ayi speaks to her in Chinese and she understands just about everything she asks her to do.

5) What do you miss most about from being abroad?
Family, that is certainly the hardest.

6) Where are you going to live when you come back?
Our apartment in NY. If you asked us a year ago if we'd be living in China I'd have answered "yeah right". I see you NEVER know where life will take you, literally, so we have a plan but who knows!




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Monday, July 13, 2015

Max for the Minimum

TJ Maxx is truly a great store. I went in looking for a new wallet and I left with a wallet, a robotic arm grabber toy and a Frozen suitcase (for my daughter, not for me). The luxury of walking down the aisles and seeing the potential of all those clothes and shoes fitting me was exhilarating.

On one hand I've come to terms with walking by and into stores in China and know there is a 3% chance of me finding something I like AND that fits. I am usually buying clothes for the kids. Now in America I walk by many many stores and think of the 97% of things I COULD buy.

Being the organized person that I am, rest assured my dearest Beloved, if you are reading this, I'm sticking to my list. My long list...


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8th Days a Charm

It may not be over but I am willing and hoping to say the worst of the jet-lag is behind us. After 8 very long nights and very long days everyone slept generally normally.  Much like adjusting to life in Shanghai, I have been distracted from my own jet-lag because I've been dealing with the jet-lag of a 1 year old and a 4 year old but if anything can be said about it, they are troopers.

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Home Sweet Home

15 hours of flying, 9,000 miles plus a ride home down the NJ Turnpike we have arrived. Despite the horrific jet-lag, harder to manage than doing a solo flight with both kids, we are so happy to be here.

My Dearest and I have been talking about what will be the FIRST thing we want to eat when we arrive. I've posted about this idea in general about what do we miss most from America and how we can get just about everything in China. Now that I am here....I wouldn't change my thoughts, there aren't any major cravings or desires to eat cheese.

I was VERY excited to go to #Shoprite. The idea of walking into a supermarket and knowing there are 25+ aisles of kosher food options AND the food has a standard of regulation from the FDA was so delightful. It was so nice to walk down all the aisles not just the 4 "Imported Goods" aisles at Carrefour.

Aside from enjoying the Supermarket experience the other major difference in mainly am feeling is using tap water. Brushing teeth, cooking, drinking. Not a second thought to take from the tap. It really feels like a luxury every time in tun on the water and think how much cleaner it is that Shangahi. I am not taking it for granted that's for sure.


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Saturday, July 4, 2015

I'm Leaving My Wife Behind

My mom is a very wise woman for MANY reasons. For this instance, she would say often how she needs a wife.  Married for nearly 43 years, my parents juggled 4 kids, work, carpool, soccer, hebrew school, proms, camp, college applications, life stuff with minimal help.  My mom would often not have enough hands to do everything she needed, eyes to watch everyone, or be everywhere she wanted. She needed a wife, someone to take care of the things so she could be where she really needed to be.  

Come to China and you too can have a wife, or as we call her Ayi (literally translated as Auntie but meaning nanny).  The Ayi's become apart of your family. They do the cleaning, the ironing, the bed making, the dusting, the dishes, the cooking and the childcare.  They do it all and happily.  

Some would say I am on "vacation" while we are here in Shanghai.  I merely feel I have a wife.  Ayi helps me in a way that I can spend time one-on-one with my kids and make me feel safe and comfortable when she watches the kids;  all while happily mopping and ironing and cooking.  It truly is amazing.  

I am leaving for the airport soon to travel to the States for the summer with the kids and I am leaving my wife and my husband behind.  

Thursday, July 2, 2015

Fortune Cookie Friday

See the light at the end of the tunnel.

I really could go in many different philosophical directions with this fortune.

I think Dr. Leo Marvin may have said it best, "Baby Steps".  The basic concept of this page-turner is take life one step at a time.  For me, the light at the end of the tunnel is not the big picture/end result. It is more of making the most of my time, getting through my day and feeling good about it.

Painting afternoon

Letting the paint be the art...or something like that.

Before



After






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Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Don't Hassle Them, They're Local.

Don't hassle them, they're local.







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Made in China

We are preparing for our relocation to the States next week by doing some souvenir shopping for the family.  I use the word "relocation" because traveling with kids is not a vacation.  It is merely packing up from where you are and re-locating somewhere else doing the same thing you'd do with your kids just in a different location.

According to Merriam-Websters dictionary online a vacation is defined as:

:a period of time that a person spends away from home, school, or business usually in order to relax or travel
: the number of days or hours per year for which an employer agrees to pay workers while they are not working
: a time when schools, colleges, and universities are closed


None of the above apply to me.

I digress.  I am curious, however, what you think of as "souvenirs" when you think China.  Everything seems to made here but what would you want from here.

Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Photo Post: Light

Some light on another rainy day...




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Tuesday Trivia: Did You Know?

1.  Shanghai was originally a small fishing village with little hope of advancing past its swampy origins.  Although it feels a mix between a river with all the rain water and a sauna from all the humidity.  

2. The Huangpu River that divides Shanghai in half never freezes and is ice free.

3. Shanghai is also known as the Pearl of the Orient and Paris of the East.

4. Shanghai cooking is sweeter than other areas in China and they consume more sugar than any other part of China.

5. The Shanghai city flower is the white magnolia.

6.   Shanghai means 'on top of the sea' but I maybe I'll start calling it 'Top of the muffin to you'


Sunday, June 28, 2015

Breasts and Chicken Breasts

For about 2 months now, my 4 year old son, when asked what he likes to eat, responds: "breasts, chicken breasts, ketchup, french fries and chocolate chips."  In the next sentence he'll tell you that he wants to become a vegetarian.  His very dear friend is a vegetarian.  I told my son if he will eat kale chips and chick peas I will cater to his desire to be a vegetarian.  Two months later he has yet to try kale chips or chick peas so I think we are still carnivores.

With that said, I think I am a vegetarian (again, throw back to my teens).  Pretty much every night we have chicken with some sort of stir fry vegetables.  It's delicious, don't get me wrong, but every night I debate whether or not I want to eat chicken as I don't want to "limit" myself to have to wait 3 hours to have dairy afterwards.

What dairy, you ask? Hot Chocolate, that's it! It's not like we keep a freezer full of ice cream, which we can if we wanted Hagen Daz or even Ben and Jerry's but we don't.  But every night when I think about what I am going to eat for dinner (since it isn't going to Gan Asia, Deli Kasbah or Amsterdam Burger Company) I weigh my options. And I'd say 5 out of 7 nights I won't eat the chicken.  I'll have tofu instead or soup or anything that will keep my door open to have hot chocolate.

And I wonder why my 4 year old loves chicken breasts? Or do I wonder why he is consider giving it up?


Thursday, June 25, 2015

Fortune Cookie Friday, with a piece history...

I am starting a weekly post, special thanks to Marc "the Shark Rosenberg" for his inspiration.  I will be posting a fortune cookie saying and try and relate that saying to my experience.

I did some digging into the history of fortune cookies. Most of us think they are a Chinese delicacy but alas it is not. The recipe for fortune cookies is based on a Japanese cracker. They are flat cookies that have a fortune placed in the center, are folded over, and then the ends are brought together. They are made with sugar, flour, oil, and vanilla. Fortune cookies were introduced in the first part of the 20th century in the United States. It is interesting to note that they are not found in China, only in Chinese restaurants in the United States. The fortunes are written on a slip of paper and may have words of wisdom, a prophecy, or lucky numbers.

"Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds."

What effort I put into things is what I hope to get out.  Not always the case but I try to do the best I can, be satisfied with the efforts I put in for me and my good intentions will shine through one way or another.

It's New Jersey!

New Jersey is awesome! And it is about to get an awesome new family! Not us, but a dear friend got on a plane last night with her family. They have been living in Shanghai for their 3rd time in 10 years.  They are both beyond proficient in Chinese in a mind blowing capacity.  My friend is an inspiration to try and learn as much as I can while I am here.

I am sad right now. More sad than I thought I would be. They are moving to NJ, we will see them again and very soon.  My friend described our arrival as a pleasant surprise friendship towards the end of their term.  I think now, of course not knowing what the next 1.5 years will bring here, but I feel spoiled to have started my term here with a friendship like hers.

Maybe the feeling, familiar. It think it has been very comforting to have met someone so familiar as we made such a big transition.  Coming from NY as well, having kids the same ages as mine and having similar interest.  People I have met have all been so nice and friendly. We are all in a similar boat. Jobs brought them or their spouse abroad, adjusting to a new language, culture, schooling, social life.

A new crop of people will moving here after the summer as the new "semester" will be begin, so who knows who will come but I know it will all work out but sure am lucky to have met this new friend.

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Tuesday Tidbit about China's history

Trying to increase my knowledge about the region of the world I am living so I thought I would share my knowledge by creating Tuesday tidbits*.

The Republic of China was established in 1912 putting an end to nearly 4,000 years of Imperial Rulership byt the Qing Dynasty. Sun Yat-Sen is known is the founding father of the Chinese Revolution.  His ideology, famous known as "The Three Principles of the People", the political philosophy of nationalism, democracy and socialism is one of his legacies to the people of China and Taiwan.

*please keep in mind all information is collected via the intra-web so feel free to correct, update and share any errors with me.

Sunday, June 21, 2015

Thanks to Readers Like You...

A friend emailed me today on Facebook. We have an amazing mutual friend who introduced us and we have been friends since. We all know how it is (at least I hope you do and if not then now you have insight into my Facebook habits) life gets busy, people change jobs, move out of town, you just talk less. I've come to rely on Facebook status' and Instagram for friend updates.

I love it.

I love seeing what's happening in your lives without having to email all the friends Facebook has suggested for me from all the different stages in my life. My growing up friends, my sorority sisters, all the Israel Outdoors birthright groups I staffed (4), my USY on Wheels and USY pilgrimage friends, my old co workers in advertising and graduate school facebook has it there if you post it.

Some of you have reached out to me on whatsapp, started following me on instagram and emailed me.  It means so much and love hearing the updates.  I put what's happening for me and my family out there on a blog to share my experiences and adventures and facebook is the fastest and easiest way to alert you of a new post. But I also want to hear what experiences and adventures are happening in my friends lives.

I never really thought of it this way before but blogging is a one-way street, you get to hear whatever I want to share.  You can comment feedback but really there is no other road opened for return communication.  I guess my goal is not to just share but also hear back.  I miss you. I miss the changes in season (the non sweltering days in NYC), afternoons in the park with friends at the playground, meeting up with family, pool days, beach days, lazy Sunday's in a quiet city but it's also hard to hear back from friends on work, moves, roommates, running races, weekend plans, dating, family.

So find me on instagram (erf21) so I can follow you! Whatsapp or WeChat me! Tell me what's going on or send me an email!  So thanks Cheryl for inspiring this post and look forward to being in touch.

Sunday Funday Father's Day Shanghai Style


We got a jump on our Sunday and got out of our apartment early to visit the Yuan Gardens/Tea Market.  It was quiet busy considering we were there at 9:30am but expected as it is a holiday weekend.  The market was basically like the Machane Yehuda but with less food.  It consisted of narrow streets, tons of vendors, mostly house hold supplies and toys and always looking to bargin. The afternoon we took advantage of the unheated pool in our building. While the guys went swimming, the girls did pilates.  My daughter can hold her squat longer than me, see picture below.  Enjoy some other pictures from a walk around our neighborhood.









Thursday, June 18, 2015

Goldie and Nemo

Our new pets survived the night, shockingly. And enjoying their American breakfast of....waffles.




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Wednesday, June 17, 2015

China Traffic and Multitasking

I am sitting in a cab when the idea for this post came to me. We have been in stop and go traffic for about 35 minutes on a highway, after rush hour, no one seems to have road rage, I'm late for my appointment, reading emails and it all cost about $6. Coming from NYC with city traffic bridge traffic, tunnel traffic, this does not even compare mainly because there are few bridges and tunnels just a VERY extensive highway/road system

How can I be upset??

My beloved takes cabs MUCH more frequently than I do. The cost benefit analysis for cabs versus the subway for commuting is about equal so it really is just a matter of time, do we want to walk to the subway or just sit in a cab. So I hear A LOT about cab rides and traffic.  It can be a great time to catch up calls to America or just sit in solitude (with all the traffic).  I am grateful my driver is not smoking, talking on his phone (which I a mean yelling at his dear friend or wife) and there are seat belts. It's the culture I am telling myself, maybe that's why I am so calm, surprising myself VERY much.

China seems to have mellowed me?

The P.S. is I was 20 minutes late to my appointment. They did not seem to mind one iota, made me wait 15 more minutes and then I was on my way.  All while offering me green tea.



Come Rain or Come Shine?

It's been raining for 3 days straight.  Finally an end in sight, maybe.  These pictures do not even cover the fashionable way Chinese people use to cover their shoes but they are covered on their scooters and other things! Oh it's something....













Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Tourist takes

Our first official visitor has arrived, stayed with us, traveled with us and has returned back to her home, in what we agreed, was a successful visit on all accounts. Our (great-great) Aunt came to get a glimpse of our everyday life.  She got that and a little R&R.  You'd have to ask her for her account of the visit but not having Shanghai on her list of places to travel to a year ago she was more than happy to come and see us, despite being on a plane for 15 hours (but really what is 3 more hours than Israel??)

The ERA Shanghai Acrobatic Circus, Jewish Shanghai Tour, boat ride on the Huang Pu River and views of The Bund, knock-off shopping, upscale shopping, foot massage, Xi'an and of course, if you know my Aunt, lots of projects.

When I asked my Aunt how she would describe her impressions of Shanghai, as I am very curious of others' impressions now that I have adjusted, she said "Gobsmacked".  Her reaction of Shanghai has got me rethinking my impressions of Washington, DC.

According to Google (for whatever that is worth) the population of Washington, DC is about 660,000.  When I think of DC I think Nations Capitol, Monuments, Politics (blah), the Smithsonian, the White House. All these are HUGE iconic locations in US history and are very central in the history and development of our country.

But really in the perspective of the world and where I am right now, my mind is recalibrating

Monday, June 15, 2015

Backwards day at school

The end of the school year means the end of teaching! Pajama day, backwards day, swim/water day and movie day!?!?

Here is Mr. Backwards and he is doing it all backwards. Eating under the table, vanilla milk, vanilla chips. Maybe he'll go to bed with a snap of the finger tonight!




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Semester's over...opps I mean it's just June

I am feeling reminiscent of my school days.  The teachers counting down to summer vacation, the parents and kids talking about where they are traveling for the summer, what camp, family plans, who is repatriating back to the States (sadly, friends we have become very close with while we are here are moving back to the States).  Shanghai may not have clear air but the people are clearing out for summer.

I was a little bit in denial of it when I first heard people talking about there "summer plans" when we arrived in March.  We were advised it is best to be out of the country for August.  Apparently it is brutal here; between the heat, humidity, air quality people get out of town.  Clearly it's a great reason to come to the States to see family but how long is long enough to be away to see everyone you'd like and not too long where you are eager to get back to your apartment (ask me at the end of August and I'll let you know, follow up post to come).  But then we heard people were leaving mid-July and then end of June.  People really leave for the entire summer, semester's over time to move out of the dorms! So we are preparing to leave for the summer also.  With mixed feelings of leaving the routine and lifestyle we have finally gotten used to and excitement to see family we are nearing booking our tickets for 8 weeks in the States (based btn South Jersey, West Chester and CT).

Meanwhile semester is wrapping up.  Today is pajama day (somebody's FAVORITE day of the year) at school, tomorrow backwards day and Wednesday swim day,  The end of year show was last week, as people were leaving and missing the last full week of school.  And who wouldn't want to miss a performance with this?




Sunday, June 14, 2015

8 Habits Kicked When Moving to China

*Special thank you to my brother Gregg Rosenberg for sharing this interesting and very relevant article with me.  "8 American habits I kicked when I moved to China" by Lauren Steffen @ Matador Network pin points great adaptations that are a MUST moving to China.

Here is the gist with my comments and insights

1. Keep my privates private
I was warned to bring tissues and hand sanitizer where ever I go. Thankfully (and mostly because we haven't traveled outside of Shanghai much) this has not been in an issue. Personal space maybe, but so far bathrooms have be clean, "normal/Western" and private, the way I like it.

2.  Waiting patiently for things
This item I encounter most frequently, while in line, at the supermarket produce section waiting for my items to weighed and priced.  It has become apart of my daily routine to go to Carrefour.  If I don't have to go twice in one day than miracle! And if I don't go for a day I just feel off.  Waiting in line you have be a-g-g-r-e-s-s-i-v-e be aggressive.  I am not fooled by the people smiling at my daughter in the stroller and trying to step in front of me, get to the back of the line, I will roll you over with my jogging stroller to get apples and avocados weighed too!

3.  Expecting personal space to be respected
Along the lines of #2, there is no personal space when it comes to looking at and trying to touch my kids. From our first week here and now 5 months later, my aunt from Washington, DC who just spent 2 weeks visiting us described being out in public with us like being with the Kardashians, people follow us like paparazzi. They don't care in any language "don't touch" "not ok" or any other phrase I am learning in Chinese to get them to back off.
We do sometimes wonder if pictures of our kids will go viral one day...you can say you read it here first if it does happen.

4. Not talking to strangers
People like talking English, sometimes. Probably how I feel about practicing my Chinese, alot of "Good Morning", "Hello".  I try not to engage people but when I do I make sure I respond in Chinese.

5. Being safe conscious
Cabs don't have seat belts, there are no rules for helmets, mopeds, scooters, motorcycles or bikes.  There are no rules for minimums or maximums for individuals  and families on said scooters.  Everyone has the right of way and everyone is in a hurry.

6. Talking quietly
When we first arrived I stopped on the sidewalk when I heard people what I though was yelling at each other when really they were having a civil conversation.  It took me a few weeks to get used to people were not attacking each other and really asking for directions or not even arguing over who had the right of way.

7. Communicating through words
Chinese is a very difficult language to learn.  Every word can be pronounced with 4 different sounds and 4 very different words.  Sometimes I think I have the sounds, other days I know I am just off.  Trial and err, I am trying to figure out what I want and where I go but am I turning right when I want to turn right and left when I want to turn left.

8. Always telling the truth
I have not encountered much of this as I naturally like to tell the truth. And most of my fibbing is done when I am bargaining for something in a market.




Lets go riding in an automobile....

I can't help but think of the Sesame Street song "Let's Go Driving" was written by Trina Powell, Tamara Powell, Marc Kinchen.
Riding in a taxi one morning, I Shazam'ed a song from the radio. A little surprised at myself because the song was clearly Chinese pop (most cab drivers listen to talk radio or nothing AND most of the time I am in a cab I am too busy praying in my head I will end up at the destination I am planning to go as my Chinese is minimal and geographically I don't know where I am going sometimes).

Most of the music we listen in our apartment is from our iTunes library, YouTube "Maccabeats" videos, or Pandora Radio Grateful Dead station (all you EDR).

When I went to purchase the Shazam'ed song it could not be found in iTunes. My Chinese iPhone with my US iTunes perhaps? Further research is needed but excited to have found fun new music to listen to....one day and always happy to reach my destination.

*update: I tried to find the Chinese song I shazam'ed to show you but I can't seem to find it has my phone was dropped in a bucket of water and my history was not backed up to that app.  Til my next ride in an automobile...

Thursday, June 11, 2015

Men at work

I could not resist posting these pictures of various China Men at work...

After all, it is all in a days work.











Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Xi'an: 48 hours recapped

As mentioned in previous posts, my Aunt is visiting us. Prior to her visit I asked what she'd like to see and do while visiting China (thinking she might say the Great Wall or the Panda's in Chandu). Her one request was to visit the Terra Cotta Warrior statues.

After doing some quick research I saw that it's about 2 hours Northwest by plane. Planing this trip was my first attempt at planning an excursion within China. I was a bit apprehensive taking on airfare, hotel, transportation, guiding and food for my aunt and my family. Thankfully, and really I knew it would all come together to some degree, it did all came together.

We flew out on a 7:20am flight (yawn) Sunday morning, which meant a 5am airport pick up. We toured the Bell Tower and Drum Tower, Starbucks, Hagen Daz and saw some local markets. It was hot. Really hot.

After we regrouped we ventured out to the South Gate and South Gate Wall. Basically this sight reminded me of the Kotel in Jerusalem but in this case we went to the top of the wall and took a trolley ride around the entire 13 kilometers of the perimeter. The ride gave us a good perspective of life within the city walls and beyond the walls and we got to see the old architecture mixed with the very modern construction, just like the Old City in Jerusalem.


Leading our tour with our guide Jason



Thanksgiving Temple


Buddhist Temple


"Who can say cheese with all this statues???"